{"id":1968,"date":"2021-06-10T14:12:25","date_gmt":"2021-06-10T14:12:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/naqshbandi.org\/?page_id=1968"},"modified":"2022-10-19T05:18:16","modified_gmt":"2022-10-19T05:18:16","slug":"%e0%a6%a8%e0%a6%bf%e0%a6%9c%e0%a7%87%e0%a6%95%e0%a7%87-%e0%a6%ae%e0%a7%82%e0%a6%b2%e0%a7%8d%e0%a6%af%e0%a6%be%e0%a6%af%e0%a6%bc%e0%a6%a8-%e0%a6%95%e0%a6%b0%e0%a7%81%e0%a6%a8","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"http:\/\/naqshbandi.org\/bn\/teachings\/suhbat-association\/suhbats-of-mawlana-shaykh-hisham-kabbani\/evaluate-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"\u09a8\u09bf\u099c\u09c7\u0995\u09c7 \u09ae\u09c2\u09b2\u09cd\u09af\u09be\u09af\u09bc\u09a8 \u0995\u09b0\u09c1\u09a8"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.18.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; background_image=&#8221;https:\/\/naqshbandi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Baya2.jpg&#8221; min_height=&#8221;550px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||||false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; title_text=&#8221;Baya2&#8243;][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; background_enable_image=&#8221;off&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;bottom_center&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|||||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row column_structure=&#8221;1_5,3_5,1_5&#8243; make_equal=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;70px||5px||false|false&#8221; custom_css_main_element=&#8221;align-items: center;&#8221; locked=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/naqshbandi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/Capture1.png&#8221; title_text=&#8221;Capture1&#8243; align=&#8221;right&#8221; align_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; align_phone=&#8221;center&#8221; align_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;3_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.18.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; header_2_font=&#8221;Anglecia Pro Display||||||||&#8221; header_2_text_align=&#8221;center&#8221; header_2_text_color=&#8221;#05290d&#8221; header_2_font_size=&#8221;62px&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-23px||||false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|0px||||&#8221; header_2_font_size_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; header_2_font_size_phone=&#8221;40px&#8221; header_2_font_size_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2>Evaluate Yourself<\/h2>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/naqshbandi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/Capture.png&#8221; title_text=&#8221;Capture&#8221; align=&#8221;right&#8221; align_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; align_phone=&#8221;center&#8221; align_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.18.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;Nunito Sans||||||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;16px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||12px|||&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; locked=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<\/p>\n<div class=\"text\">\n<p><b>Questioner:<\/b>\u00a0Mawlana, how do you know if, how do you know if you\u2019re, you\u2019re on the right path? Like how do you like, for example, let\u2019s say, if you\u2019re a student in school , you get a report card, it tells you how you\u2019re doing. As a Muslim, how do know if you\u2019re \u2026<\/p>\n<p><b>Shaykh Hisham:\u00a0<\/b>\u2026 [jokingly] sitting on the couch like you are? [laughter]<\/p>\n<p><b>Questioner:\u00a0<\/b>You tell me.<b><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Shaykh Hisham:\u00a0<\/b>As long as your heart feels peaceful, it is what you are doing , Alhamdulillah, is all right. When you begin to feel that your heart is worried, then you know that they are doing something wrong. [Asks questioner:] Are you happy with what you are doing?<\/p>\n<p><b>Questioner:<\/b>\u00a0Yes.<\/p>\n<p><b>Shaykh Hisham:<\/b>\u00a0Okay, Alhamdulillah, good. [To another audience member:] Are you happy with what you are doing?<\/p>\n<p><b>Audience Member #1:<\/b>\u00a0Subhana Allah.<\/p>\n<p><b>Shaykh Hisham:<\/b>\u00a0Alhamdulillah. [To another audience member] Are you happy with what you are doing?<\/p>\n<p><b>Audience Member #2:<\/b>\u00a0What I\u2019m doing? I\u2019m happy. [laughs]<\/p>\n<p><b>Shaykh Hisham:<\/b>\u00a0Alhamdulillah. [Now he asks himself] Are, you happy with what you are doing?<\/p>\n<p>NO ! No, I\u2019m not happy. [laughter]<\/p>\n<p>This depends on how you feel, that are you doing something good for yourself by benefiting the, the ummah, by worshipping? So you have to judge for yourself. So if you find that you are happy, then, <em>Alhamdulillah<\/em>\u2026<\/p>\n<p><b>Questioner:<\/b>\u00a0To critique yourself is hard sometimes\u2026<\/p>\n<p><b>Shaykh Hisham:<\/b>\u00a0Yeah it\u2019s hard, but it\u2019s easy. You can think: \u201cToday what I have done? Did I hurt anyone heart? Did I lie? Did I did something wrong? You think\u2026 you\u2019ll find lots of mistakes! All right? So you know, that\u2019s why Sayyidina \u2018Umar said: \u201cwho, every day you evaluate you, your, what you have done. If you find that your work yesterday was better than your work today, better for you to be under ground than to be above ground.\u201d It means every day you have to improve yourself. If you don\u2019t improve, it means you are losing.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why Sayyidina \u2018Umar put one person in his, at his door, when he used to enter, to remind him of\u00a0<em>akhira<\/em>\u00a0[hereafter]. One day he said to that person: \u201cI don\u2019t need you anymore\u201d \u2013 after many years: \u201cI don\u2019t need, I don\u2019t need you , I don\u2019t.\u201d He said, \u201cSayyidina \u2018Umar , why, why don\u2019t you need me anymore?\u201d He said, \u201d Me, I was sitting there for two, three years at your door telling you, remind \u2019Remember\u00a0<em>akhira<\/em>, the next life, remember\u00a0<em>akhira<\/em>\u2019 whenever you enter your house, whenever you go.\u2019 He said, \u201cNow, I have already, Allah gave me two, two reminders for me for\u00a0<em>akhira<\/em>.\u201d He said, \u201cWhat are they?\u201d He said, \u201cMy beard has two white hairs. Now I know that I am on the way to die.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So, if you have this consciousness, then, you know what you do and you can report yourself what you are doing. And that\u2019s why sometimes you need a guide. Just now you said in the university they have reports. Who gives them the reports? 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